Why I work with men
In all honesty it didn’t start off as a noble cause but evolved into something that I find special: Helping men get their Mojo back. Back in 1997, I was a photojournalist, and not a very happy one. I didn’t have a great sense of purpose and direction and was in a career I had […]
Sign up for this and have your best year yet
How is the year going for you so far? Here we are at the start of February 2023. Are you where you wanted to be when you ‘set those resolutions?’ Where would I be without setting goals, having a plan and support structure? The answer is in a very different place that I am now. […]
Do this to have this year be your best year yet
“I can teach anybody how to get what they want out of life. The problem is that I can’t find anybody who can tell me what they want.” Mark Twain It’s a great quote from Mark Twain, isn’t it? Why is it that life seems at times so ridiculously simple and easy and yet a […]
For a year like no other, please read this.
“Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.”(Sign hanging in Albert Einstein’s office at Princeton.) It’s that time of year when many of us tend to wrap up one year and plan for the next. This article covers: Why we do it now, at the end, and beginning […]
5 Proactive tips to end suffering in silence
I have it on good authority that what frustrates women most about us men is our ‘suffering in silence.’ We can all relate, I am sure. You know when something is up for someone, you can see it – the change in face, body, and tone of voice. And then we ask, “what’s up?” Answer: […]
3 Ways to overcome a negative mindset
Have you ever experienced ritual humiliation? As a young man aged 19, I was going through military training to become an officer the royal Military Academy Sandhurst. We were new cadets, and the first six weeks was all about breaking us down to build us up so we engaged in a lot in some mind-numbing […]
The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. Is this true?
Fear is the number one mojo blocker, no question. The acronym fear can stand for forget everything and run or false expectations appearing real! I think the latter is more useful! Take a moment to think about something you really want to do in your heart completely free self expressed anything is possible. Got something? […]
Why it’s important to know your purpose.
Notice your answer to this question: what is your purpose? If you asked me, I would probably give you a different answer each time, depending on what is going on with me and my life at the time, and that’s from someone who has done a lot of work and reflected on this. I would […]
How to find your purpose in 5 minutes.
Mike Tyson said, “everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.” Such eloquence! What I think Uncle Mike is saying is that when push comes to shove we will respond from our emotions and ‘great (logical) plans’ go out the window. How do we manage this? Make your purpose good clear, simple […]
Why growing your moustache might get you more romance (in men’s mental health month.)
“Kissing a man without a moustache is like eating a steak without salt and pepper.” My grandmother! I don’t like moustaches. They give me the creeps, which is why it’s a really good idea that I have one this November. November is Men’s Health Awareness Month, with International Men’s Day, falling on the 19th November. […]